Hi folks
I’ve been thinking a lot during lockdown which for me can be quite dangerous. There is a strong, lingering smell of burning around my home and it’s played havoc with my smoke alarm.
But living on your own during a pandemic leaves time for reflection in between Zoom calls. Figuratively speaking, I’ve picked up a fare from lockdown to self discovery. On my journey I’ve found I can be happy without triple quilted loo roll, I don’t need to shower every day to be a good person and playing board games is beneficial for my mental fitness. I actually came across an Edinburgh University Study which found that regularly playing board games slows the decline in your brain function as you get older. I’ve not found a study that proves my hypotheses about loo roll though.
My big discovery is that I want to try again to find my soul mate: the one I can sound off to about my deepest fears and highest hopes and the one I would be happy to lose to when we play Taxi! Board Game. So, I uploaded my Epixel of Youth to a well known dating app.
My problem is my erudite cabbie-punter banter buckles under romantic pressure. I’m reduced from James Bond in my cab to Mr Bean on a first date. To help me through first date nerves, I’ve swotted up on do’s and don’ts of dating and scribbled three reminders for a successful date on a scrap piece of paper:
- pay compliments and ask questions
- dial down the sound offs
- if I like her…don’t accidentally call her Lorraine
Read on for my first appearance on First Dates Zoom (usual privacy settings applied…)
“Hello there. Nice to virtually meet you, Susan.”
“Yes, I can see you.”
“Okay, Susie it is. You have lovely lockdown hair. It’s very Hermione Grainger.”
“Yeah. It’s a compliment. I meant an older Hermione.”
“No. No. I’m not saying you look old. Do you like salt and vinegar or sauce on your chips?”
“Yeah. Me too. I used to be a sauce man before I became a Personal Transport Professional.”
“I like to think there’s more to being a good taxi driver than just getting punters to their destination. I like to add a personal touch.”
“No, it’s not the taste. I’ve gone off sauce cos when it congeals it’s really difficult to clean off Lorraine’s seats.”
“Haha. No, she’s my cab. I named her after..err… You know, like they do ships and planes.”
“It’s a long story. Tell me about your job. It must be really interesting.”
“That sounds rewarding. Helping people deal with their personal problems. My dad has suggested I should see a therapist.”
“I feel fine about it. My dad and me have a good relationship based on healthy competition and mutual mockery.”
“Nah, we don’t do much emotional stuff. We stick to what he calls our man-to-mans.”
“Well, we do shake hands.”
“I can tell you to the day. Our last hug was 16th June 1998.”
“Because it was the last time Scotland scored a goal in a major international football tournament.”
“Yes, I do have a strong female role model. She’s warm, generous and caring. Intelligent and funny too. She’s a really important part of my life.”
“Oh yeah. And my mum as well. You’re very good at this. I feel I could tell you anything. Do you have somebody who listens to you?”
“Well, I’d be happy to. I’ve got a bit of counselling experience from my job.”
“Most of the time it’s sports, politics and celebrities but I’ve been asked for marriage advice, career advice and even health advice.”
“No. I can’t say. Like in your line of work, cabbie-punter privilege is sacrosanct.”
“Yep, what’s said in the cab stays in the cab. I’ve also done a bit of self-therapy to help me deal with adverse experiences from my past.”
“Well, I’ve not found any studies that help much. I think I might be breaking new therapeutic ground.”
“I suffer from something I call TED.”
“Trauma from Early Dating.”
“It is. It can be quite debilitating.”
“I get flashbacks when I’m in stressful dating situations. They become stronger and more vivid if I like the person. Wait. Give me a few seconds. I’m having one now.“
“Yeah. I can hear you.”
“ Okay….CaAalm.. Caaaaalm. Caaaaaaalm.”
“Oh. That’s really worked. I feel better already. I’m glad a professional was on hand.”
“Oh no. That’s the time up warning already.”
“Yeah. Me too. We should do this again.”
“Definitely. It was nice to met you, Lorraine.”